Dear Robyn and Skippy,
I am not one to give my heart away very easily, in fact I am so guarded that I don’t even get involved in casual sex. Recently, I met someone who I connected with so quickly and easily that I completely let my guard down. We had a very short meaningful relationship, but she was not as committed to seeing things through as I was. Suddenly she was putting me on the back burner to everyone else in her life. She made me feel unimportant and when I tried to talk to her about cooling things off, she told me not to leave her. This went on for weeks, back and forth. We are both very emotional people and our emotions got the best of us. We started arguing and then fighting and before I knew it, I was completely cut out of her life. Cold turkey.
Now we are not talking and I need closure, it is just how I operate. She wont respond to me when I try to contact her and it is driving me crazy. I can’t move on until I can close this chapter in my life, it is eating me up inside. I know we will see each other again because we have a lot of the same friends. I don’t want see her again without the closure I need. What can I do to alleviate my grief and find the closure I seek?
Suddenly Seeking Closure
Read Robyn’s response here: She Says: Phase Her Out
Read Skippy’s response here: He Says: Stop Being A Beta
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