Dear Robyn and Skippy,

I went on a date the other night with a girl I met on a dating site.   It was an experience that made me reflect on what I want.  I showed up early, found a good table and waited for her to come.  When she got there she was as pretty as her pictures and a bit nervous, I was too.  We talked for a long time, had an awesome time and 6 hours later I kissed her goodnight.

It was a great date, except for a couple of things. She doesn’t like video games, she’s not really into technology, doesn’t drink as much as I do and I think she wants something long term.  I don’t know that I am ready for that.  I mean I want something long term eventually, but I want it to start out in the “short term” range of things.  I feel like I may be over analyzing things.  I should be way more into her than I am, I mean, we had a great date!  Should I ask her out again or would that be leading her on?  Are my expectations too high?  I think she is what I want but I just don’t know.

Help!

Dating and Doubting