Dear Robyn and Skippy,
I went on a date the other night with a girl I met on a dating site. It was an experience that made me reflect on what I want. I showed up early, found a good table and waited for her to come. When she got there she was as pretty as her pictures and a bit nervous, I was too. We talked for a long time, had an awesome time and 6 hours later I kissed her goodnight.
It was a great date, except for a couple of things. She doesn’t like video games, she’s not really into technology, doesn’t drink as much as I do and I think she wants something long term. I don’t know that I am ready for that. I mean I want something long term eventually, but I want it to start out in the “short term” range of things. I feel like I may be over analyzing things. I should be way more into her than I am, I mean, we had a great date! Should I ask her out again or would that be leading her on? Are my expectations too high? I think she is what I want but I just don’t know.
Dating and Doubting